Friday, October 28, 2011

Heartbeat

Today we went in for our second appointment and to hear baby beans heartbeat. After waiting for what seemed like hours, oh wait it was over an hour wait, the doctor came into our room. She asked how the past month had been and how I was feeling. Then it was right down to business. She warned us that sometimes it takes her a minute or so to get the heartbeat so not to worry. Of course it took her about 30 seconds, but I swear those 30 seconds felt like 15 minutes. At one point I just looked at Jared and he gave me a confirming look that everything was OK. Just after that we heard baby beans heartbeat for the very first time! AMAZING!! I think this pregnancy has finally become real to me. There is something about hearing the heartbeat that confirms it all. Jared was able to record the heartbeat on his phone so we could play it for our parents. I've found myself listening to it over and over and over....it's comforting! According to the doctor baby beans heartbeat is perfect and everything is progressing like it should.

I'm excited to get started on more baby stuff. We still haven't settled on a nursery theme. We thought we had but then I started thinking about waiting until we find out what we are having so I can be more gender specific. At least we've gone out and looked so we have some ideas for when we find out what we're having. December is so far away!! We may not have a theme but we have settled on a crib and dresser/changing table. Now we're just waiting to keep a coupon before anything is purchased.

I've been able to go maternity shopping with both my mom and mother-in-law so I've got some clothes that should get me through a majority of this pregnancy. I will admit that I was a little freaked out when I went to motherhood maternity and had to put on the belly pillow....really??? Come on!! Oh well...it made for some good laughs.

I also purchased a baby memory book and I'm looking forward to getting started on the pre-baby part. At first I didn't know if I'd do one, but then I remembered how fun it was to go back with my mom and read through the one she did for me.

That's all for now! Stay tuned!
-AKL

Friday, October 21, 2011

First Trimester

I'm ending my first trimester....Phew!! Not gonna lie....it hasn't been fun. I had my fair share of mini breakdowns thinking there is no way I can handle pregnancy. Many days I just wanted to re-do this whole thing because I couldn't get out of bed due to morning sickness ALL DAY LONG!!! Don't get me wrong, I'm thankful I've been sick since that means baby bean is growing strong, but man I'm ready to start feeling like my old self again.

I've found that baby bean doesn't like plain chicken of any sort. The chicken has to be breaded like a chicken nugget. Lots of flavor and spice can be checked at the door...plain Jane is best. Baby bean prefers cold food vs. hot food. For example, when eating pizza baby bean prefers it to be cold rather than hot. Don't ask me why because I don't know! Haven't really craved fruit or veggies, however the occasional grape sure does taste good. I'm thinking baby bean is somewhat a fan of peanut butter and celery but we're only on day two of trying. The biggest craving for baby bean is all things dairy!! Must be because I've never really been a dairy person. I swear I could live off of cereal and ice cream for the duration of this pregnancy. I found a yogurt that baby bean really likes so that's helpful in the mornings or afternoons.

Hormones....seriously....out of whack people! Not in an angry way but an emotional way. I'm not a big crier but I'm pretty sure almost every day tears are shed. Most commercials or movies can do it to me or if someone looks at me wrong! It's not a big deal for me to go from laughing to full out sobbing in a matter of seconds. Don't belive me, just ask Jared.

Speaking of Jared, kuddos to him for stepping up and taking really good care of me. Like I said this first trimester hasn't been a walk in the park but Jared sure has been great. He's dealt with everything from A-Z and he's done it like a champ.

Next week we go in to hear baby beans heart beat. We're both so excited. It was unreal to see baby bean in our first ultrasound and to watch the heart beat that I can only imagine what it'll be like to hear the heart beat!

Until next time!
-AKL

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Chandler

Chandler...our little man is bouncing back from an extremely scary episode. Chan has always been a routine dog. He likes the family to be together, he doesn't like the house out of place, and he doesn't like his schedule messed with. If his routine gets disturbed he'll start to act out a little. Typically he gets depressed, won't eat, and usually gets an upset stomach. Needless to say we didn't really think to much about him being distant when he started acting up while I was house sitting for my mom.

We had decided the best thing would be for Jared to stay at our house with Shy and Chan and I would go down to my mom's and stay with her dog Tokyo while she was out of town for 10 days. The first couple of days seemed to be fine then Jared started noticing Chan becoming distant. He shrugged it off a bit because he figured since I was gone and he had the house destroyed (preparing for a nursery)that Chan was just being Chan.

Jared called me on a Friday and said Chan wasn't eating and had thrown up and pooped in the bed. I thought that was odd but agreed that it was probably because he was depressed about me being gone and the house being a mess. Saturday rolled around and Jared came to get me so we could go look at nursery themes. We talked about Chan and Jared suggested I come to the house to spend some time with him to see if that would help. So after lunch we headed up to our house to check on Chan. Jared went downstairs to go get the dogs out of their kennels and I waited upstairs in the kitchen. Chan could hardly walk up the stairs. He continually fell up the stairs and when he saw me he tried to walk over and just laid down. I told Jared that wasn't normal but since he hadn't been eating we thought maybe he was weak. I tried to hand feed Chan some food but he was not interested. Jared did give him some cookies and he ate those. We then tried some white bread and he seemed happy to eat come of that. We were thinking it had to do with us all not being together. So we decided to hang out for a while and just relax.

We ended up leaving and Jared took me back to my mom's house and he headed home. Throughout the afternoon and early evening he said Chan didn't look good, had thrown up more and refused to eat anything. At that point I suggested that they come down to my mom's house and we see if that helps. So Jared packed up the dogs and came down.

When Chan got to my mom's house he ran around, jumped up on her couch and just seemed to be perfectly happy. We're thinking this is all he needed. Chan hung out with me on the couch while we watched some TV before bed. I took Chan to bed with me and he wouldn't relax. So I went and got Shy and he seemed to calm down. Throughout the night he threw up 4 different times. I knew this wasn't normal and that we'd have to get him into the vet on Monday. At about 6 in the morning I heard Chan whimper and then I smelled something. He was laying on the bed completely out of it and had pooped on himself and didn't care.....NOT normal for him! I quickly got up, tried to clean him up and took him outside. When I picked him up he was just a rag doll. He wouldn't lift his head or anything. I walked him outside and tried to put him on the patio. He collapsed, he couldn't stand. So picked him up again and tried him in the grass....he tried to walk but just fell over and rolled down my mom's lawn. I FREAKED OUT!!!! I went and picked up him, told Jared to get up and take him to the ER right away! I put Chan in the bathtub in case he had to potty again. He never moved.

I got on the phone to the closest animal ER and explained what was going on and that Jared would be right up with Chan. We wrapped Chan in some blankets and off Jared went. I stayed back and took care of the other dogs and then headed in to the ER to meet up with Jared. It took forever!! When I got there Jared still didn't know what was happening, they had told him 30 minutes, and that they were taking blood work and trying to find out what was happening. We were told he was blind, we were told they thought he might be in toxic shock from eating a mushroom in our backyard, so we had no idea where things were going to lead.

After a few minutes one of the gals came and brought Chan into the room we were waiting in. I took Chan and he just laid in my arms like a baby. He didn't move, didn't whimper, didn't bark....nothing. 3o minutes passed and no one was coming to talk to us. An hour passed and still no one came.....almost an hour and a half later Chan got restless and started to whimper. Next thing I know he was peeing on me. I told Jared to get someone now and Chan went limp. I put him on the table and one of the doctors came, felt for a pulse and decided to take him back and put him on fluids. I thought we were losing him at that point. We waiting for a few minutes and the doctor came in and said she had to give him a steroid shot and he sat up like nothing was wrong.

A second doctor came in and we were told that Chan was in Addisonian Crisis. They explained that his body was shutting down because his adrenal glands had stopped working and his body wasn't getting the needed steroids he needed to function. Hence the reason when they gave him the steroid shot he sat up. The doctor continued to go into details about how once he was out of the crisis stage he'd be considered an Addison dog. What that would mean is daily medication and a monthly steroid shot for the rest of his life, but not to be discouraged because Addison dogs live full lives.

We had to leave Chan at the ER all Sunday and Sunday night for him to be on IV's, heart monitors, oxygen, heat bed and hourly blood draws. Then on Monday we'd have to transfer him up to our vet for them to do more tests, monitoring, and make the final decision if he'd be able to come home on Monday night.

Chan continued to improve throughout the day on Sunday and the blood work continued to get better and better. Monday morning we went and picked up him up and transferred him to our vet. He stayed all day Monday in their care for more IV's and blood work and to take the official Addisons test. We went up to the vet Monday evening to talk with the doctor and she felt like he could come home if we felt OK with watching him. We brought him home with all his meds and new food and waiting until his blood work came back to see if he was really Addisons.

Two days later we got 100% confirmation that he has Addisons disease. He is doing much better on his medication and is gaining some weight and acting more and more like himself. We do have to keep on eye on his stress level as that is a key contributor to them crashing.

He is happy to be home with all of us and enjoys picking on Shy whenever he can. It was extremely scary going through this but we are so thankful that we still have him and that he is on the mend. We'll be taking him to the vet this week for his 10 day check up and then in November we'll go back in to start our monthly steroid injections.